Worries and Woas

Do you ever see someone you love, who suddenly their behavior radically changes, decisions are different,  you watch them crash and crash.  You try to stay on the sidelines hoping that it will be okay...  Its like a car crash in slow motion.  Do you yell out in time to try and stop it.

Well I learned that when you do and the person doesn't see anything is wrong... it doesn't go well.  No matter how many people agree with you, it does not matter.  This explosion occurred through an innocent situation that turned far out of control way to fast.

I am afraid for her, she doesn't see it the same way as we all do, and I get that, because sometimes when a behavior or concern is brought to my attention, I didn't even notice it myself.  So I get that she probably doesn't see what we all see.  Is it best to stay out of it,  Do you say something, How do you do it without seeming like your attacking the person.

I wish she saw what we saw.   I miss her and I'm sad because now our relationship is tarnished, for how long I don't know.  I miss the kids, I wish they weren't brought in to it.  It's too late to wonder and wish, the bottom is hit and we can only go up.